Visitation

Last weekend we had my husband's parents come for a visit. No matter who comes to visit, the day they are gone is a day without responsibilities. We have a "down day" where no one is expected to do chores, have a specific schedule or are demanded responsibilities. That way they can relax and try to come down from a "visitation high." The only reason is because the company disrupts "his" schedule. Sometimes we don't know "his" schedule which makes it hard to work around it. During the time of company he puts on his best face, attitude, manners, etc. Then when the company leaves he has a total meltdown. It may consist of yelling, grinding his teeth, hitting/punching, excessive teasing to siblings, and more. Sometimes it's not the time we have company but it's the "after they leave" syndrome. One day, through our consistancy, he will realize that having a "down day" really helps with his ability to handle change. Maybe he will implement it all on his own!